other week, we'll be delivering fresh relating
tips. Let these quick ideas inspire you to create your ideal
relationship! Find smart tips in these three categories:
- Dating - Ideas on finding and keeping the perfect
- Mating - Take the Passion Perks challenge and
perk up your love life!
- Relating - Tips on making your connection Extraordinary
Does an article
strike a chord or remind you of a friend's situation?
pass Relation Smarts on! Everyone deserves to have more
love in their life!
out Dr. Jenn in the next edition (August) of Cosmopolitan
Ever wonder if jealousy can be good for your relationship?
Find out in Cosmo next month!
I just returned from my fourth
year volunteering at the Smart Marriages conference. This
year it was held in Denver and I am excited to bring you all
of the latest and greatest in how to create a fantastic relationship
I'm also happy to announce
that I got certified to offer the Prepare/Enrich Relationship
Inventory for premarital and marital couples. One of the most
popular Relationship Inventories in the country, it's backed
by decades of research, making it one of the most effective
tools to increase your happiness. If you
are ready for a relationship checkup- learn more about it
Signs that a Guy is Getting Serious About You
Dr. Jenn's quotes in July's
Cosmopolitan magazine caught the attention of the John Tesh
Radio Show! Read this week's article (which summarized the
Cosmo piece) on the Tesh website: Signs
Sex Through Yoga
A recent article in Tango magazine touted
the benefits of yoga for your sex life. Not only does it reinvigorate
your body, but you'll also increase your flexibility, learn
to tune into bodily sensations, and practice clearing your
mind of stressful clutter. All of which equals more powerful
and intimate sex with your sweetie!
Perks Challenge: Take a yoga class at your
neighborhood gym or yoga studio. Or buy/rent a yoga video
and practice at home together! You can also visit www.yogatoday.com
for free, daily full-length yoga videos!
Passion is important
to the continued vitality of your relationship! That's why
Dr. Jenn is available to come to your group (business, church,
organization) to give a talk on keeping the passion alive.
for more info.
CAN Change your Partner, Sort Of
New research from Richard Mackey at
Boston College suggests that you can change your spouse over
time. Like over 20 years of marriage! He found that happily
married couples were able to nudge their partner toward better
habits over time, not by insisting on big changes or nagging,
but by asking for tiny modifications. Think, "Honey,
can you put your dishes in the sink tonight", versus
"You NEVER put your dirty dishes away, you are such a
Mackey found that two decades of asking
for such small behaviors resulted in changed partners, without
the strife caused by traditional complaints. This gives us
Action Step: Ditch
the nagging requests for big change and complaints and simply
make small, positively worded requests from time to time.
Do you do something that drives your partner batty? Try your
best to be thoughtful and adjust your behavior without being
asked. This will make your parnter more willing to adjust
their own annoying habits.
Miss This One!
Price-Fish Cancer Foundation Presents:
Hot Summer Knights 8th Annual Bachelor
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
Sing Sing, 6-9:00 PM
Ladies bid on a date with the hottest
bachelor's in Denver!
And MEN join the party afterward at 9:30 at Sing Sing.
One of the summer's biggest fun-filled nights!
Here! That means Marty's Parties are BACK!
Great chance to meet a large group
of professional singles!
Thursday, July 12th from 5:30 to 9:45.
at the Glenmoor Country Club (singles 38 & over).
Upcoming party dates are:
August 9, and September 13th
$20.00 at the door (cash,check) includes
dancing, hors d' oeuvres, mixer game, networking table, door
prizes, free parking (car pooling a plus) and the beautiful
indoor/outdoor venue for the summer! Dress is business/dressy
with a coat OR a tie required for the gentlemen. No jeans
are allowed at the Club, thanks!
Hosted by Marty Pickert. Call 303-649-9125 for more information,
or email email@example.com. www.martypickert.com
us for Savvy Singles Book Club
with local writer Christie Hartman,
author of Dating the Divorced Man
Learn how to tell
if a divorced person is ready to date and to decide
if dating a divorced person is right for you!
Tues July 24th, Scooter
Joes Coffee, Denver 7-9pm
Learn more: http://bookclub.meetup.com/537/
An online resource guide for Colorado
Singles!Includes an event calendar (you can also sign up to
receive it via email), referrals for area singles services,
and tip of the week. Brought to you by Beth Anderson, of Cotton
Learn more: www.singlocity.com
Singlocity will also be printing a
hard cover version of their resources! Know any good businesses
that serve singles that should be listed? Or maybe even your
own business!? Contact Beth for more info: email
Ready for a couple checkup? Want to
strengthen or reinvigorate your relationship? Then the Prepare/Enrich
Inventory is for you!! Email
for more info or learn more here: Prepare
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May your relationships bring you the happiness you
Jennifer Oikle, Ph.D.
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