Breakups are known for the painful suffering involved.
And of course there is going to be pain, there has been a
loss that needs to be grieved.
But most of us aggravate this pain and
turn it into true suffering by failing to accept reality 100%.
Think about how many hours our minds spend going over and
over the if only's, it shoulda been’s, and it coulda
This keeps us holding onto some reality that just isn’t
true (and sends some of us back to try again!).
But- you won't be able to move on until you fully accept the
ONLY fact that matters: Your ex isn't
The One and never will be the one because they didn't chose
Why would you want someone who isn't choosing you?-
even if EVERYTHING else is PERFECT- that one fact ALONE- is
the deal breaker.
Your ex may have been close to perfect in every
other way- EXCEPT the thing that matters most: they don’t
want to be with you. That's the deal breaker, my friend. And
nothing else matters.
Action Step: The next
time you go through a break up and you’re tempted to
turn your pain into outright suffering, stop torturing yourself
with all that was good about the relationship.
Every time your brain goes down that road-
say to yourself "Stop! Obviously,
they aren’t the One. And when I do find the One- they
are going to be EVEN better!"
Focus on repeating this fact to yourself and accepting
reality rather than the thoughts of how it could've been.
Of course, this is much easier said than done- but the more
you do it, the faster you’ll be able to let go and move
Which means the faster you'll be in your real Prince
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